What would Dr. Laura say regarding a husband that was in a horrific?

accident when you were 3 months pregnant at the time...It was devastating!!!..But i still had to work...to make ends meet...Now he was in the hospital one year and in rehab for another year...(severly brain damaged or as most people would say..."retarded"..sorry to have to say that)...Now you have a baby (girl) to raise on YOUR OWN..he cannot help..he is a child himself...with paralysis...and cannot express himself correctly...in other words calls a plate a cup...and it drives his family crazy...I feel it is alright to put him in a caring home to raise the child...I DO NOT FEEL IT IS GOOD TO HAVE THIS AROUND MY BABY...(HE ALSO HAS SEIZURES)..WHCIH IS DANGEROUS AROUND MY DAUGHTER......PLUS HE DOES NOT EVEN KNOW WHO I AM...WHAT WOULD DR. LAURA THINK OR YOU???..I AM IN MY EARLY 20'S....people...use to be friends have stayed away...and i UNDERSTAND!!!!!...i feel most churches would annul the marriage anyway...(It is worse than what i was saying)...it is sooo heartbreaking...